smartalekrj Posted December 31, 2009 Report Share Posted December 31, 2009 Well as most know I haven't been on the last couple weeks really... Been dealing with alot of RL issues... And the other day I found out my gf is pregnant. So I'll be around periodically, but there's alot of rl stuff i need to do getting ready to be a DAD!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tarquinus Posted December 31, 2009 Report Share Posted December 31, 2009 Congratulations. Parenthood is a wonderful thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peace Posted December 31, 2009 Report Share Posted December 31, 2009 Aww you are gonna have your own baby drachorn! How sweet! Congratulations!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nimrodel Posted December 31, 2009 Report Share Posted December 31, 2009 Congratulations! Thats the 2nd news I am hearing before the end of this year. Did you pass out as well? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dmik King Posted December 31, 2009 Report Share Posted December 31, 2009 Congratulations! but i dont think that it will be baby drachorn maybe more like angien Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Udgard Posted December 31, 2009 Report Share Posted December 31, 2009 Whoa! Congrats RJ! Don't forget bunny stew for the celebration party! =) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fenrir Greycloth Posted December 31, 2009 Report Share Posted December 31, 2009 Prepare yourself, soon the Next Drachorn Master shall be born under the September sun! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Amoran Kalamanira Kol Posted December 31, 2009 Report Share Posted December 31, 2009 Congrats RJ!! I'm really happy for you! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Root Admin Chewett Posted December 31, 2009 Root Admin Report Share Posted December 31, 2009 CONGRATS RJ! See, all that waiting was good for something! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MRnegative6 Posted December 31, 2009 Report Share Posted December 31, 2009 Congrats Hope all goes well:) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
redneck Posted December 31, 2009 Report Share Posted December 31, 2009 AWESOME!! RJ!! PS.happy new year Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tankfans Posted January 1, 2010 Report Share Posted January 1, 2010 Congrats, RJ A baby Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mya Celestia Posted January 1, 2010 Report Share Posted January 1, 2010 Get plenty of sleep now. You won't get any after is born. Tell your gf she's beautiful often. Being large and uncomfortable is hard on the self esteem. Congratulations and I pray all goes well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smartalekrj Posted January 1, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 1, 2010 @Mya: lol she'd kick my butt if i called her beautiful. @Chewett: Yea that waiting did pay off a bit, but i did hurry it by buying the tests and putting them on the sink in the bathroom lol... she wanted to wait til next week. @Fenrir: I'm thinking more of an August baby, but could be in the range of July to September until we go to the Dr.'s next week to find out more. @Udgard: lol i'm gonna need a Huge Pot to celebrate!! @Dmik: it will be a drachorn baby lmao. @Esmerelda: DracHorn Masters don't pass out... They get drunk. To everyone else: Thanks for the support!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jubaris Posted January 1, 2010 Report Share Posted January 1, 2010 congratz m8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rockistah Posted January 1, 2010 Report Share Posted January 1, 2010 Greetings AlekRJ! Congratulations to you becoming a dad this year. Now all you have to do is to prepare for the next level (when the baby comes out - always look at the mirror for your eyebags PS. Buy your GF the Book - [b]What to expect when you're expecting[/b] - It's one great book for 1st time mother's to be. Signed, Rockistah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Metal Bunny Posted January 1, 2010 Report Share Posted January 1, 2010 Grats Just don't raise it to eat bunnies Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladytwin Posted January 2, 2010 Report Share Posted January 2, 2010 i told you in roleplay and now here IT IS GREAT NEWS *smiles* i am so happy for you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Blackwoodforest Posted January 2, 2010 Report Share Posted January 2, 2010 First of all, my best wishes and congratulations - and this is the same reason I am so barely online Enjoy every minute RL! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
smartalekrj Posted January 19, 2010 Author Report Share Posted January 19, 2010 well the news is in. woman had a miscarraige. dr's suck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ladytwin Posted January 19, 2010 Report Share Posted January 19, 2010 aaaaaaaaawwww *hughs alec and his wife* i feel for you both but dont lose hoop i know it sounds weak but i mean it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rockistah Posted January 19, 2010 Report Share Posted January 19, 2010 I feel sorry about what happened brother but as Ladytwin mentioned, don't lose hope. I guess it's just not the right time for both of you to have one but somebody UP there knows when. PS. I have experienced losing my baby during the 2nd pregnancy of my wife. It was hard to accept but as life goes on, wounds get healed, and we were ready to have one again. Currently I have two kids now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cutler121 Posted January 19, 2010 Report Share Posted January 19, 2010 [quote name='ladytwin' date='19 January 2010 - 04:24 PM' timestamp='1263918271' post='53039'] aaaaaaaaawwww *hughs alec and his wife* i feel for you both but dont lose hoop i know it sounds weak but i mean it. [/quote] I know how you are feeling, the spontaneous abortion (what a horrible term) rate for first pregnancies has actually been reported to be higher than 60% before the 10th week. After the 10th week if this hasn't happened the rate drops dramatically to a mere 25%. Once you reach the 20th-22nd week the published rates drop again to less than 10%. This is why after 22 weeks it is called still born. After a woman has been pregnant once all of these rates drop dramatically (but ymmv). Fortunately, this really painful reality of getting pregnant doesn't affect the chance of future pregnancies. I too learned the hard way that it is best to follow the general advice and not tell anyone about the pregnancy until at least the 12th week. I hope you and your girlfriend are ok and maybe realizing that this is a fairly common occurence will give some solace but most likely not, nothing really helped me when this happened to us. If you really do want to have a baby, take a month off and focus on other things like the two of you. Best Wishes, Cutler Jubaris and Nimrodel 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mya Celestia Posted January 19, 2010 Report Share Posted January 19, 2010 [color="#8B0000"][font="Palatino Linotype"]*hugs him warmly* I know what you're going through, RJ. I miscarried my first pregnancy. Truly a painful and heartbreaking time. [/font][/color] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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