At night, when the hubbie comes home, he tells you how he's day at work went... Then he asks how was your day, how are the children... And you start to tell him what a wonderful chat you had with your wonderful friends at the Paper Cabin, or at the Oak Fort... How amasing and educated these people are, how much you value their opinions, and how much you care about them... "And the kids?" he ask again... "What kids?"