[quote]I do not tell my boyfriend how to drive his car[/quote] Wow! Lucky guy.
I'd like to say that this is not going to end for one very simple reason. There seems to be no sign of an apology from anyone. In any argument (that is resolved), there is an apology at the end. It is the apology that is the end of the argument, not silence or ignoring people, the apology. No apology means no end to the argument.
It has never been refuted it seems that Mur was accused of things like theft and manipulation. Yet no apology. People have to accept that they were wrong in some way. If they can't then they can't apologise.
We are all entitled to an opinion, but there is a fine line between an opinion and an accusation. I personally feel that this is not just about Amoran and Akasha as some people try to make out. It has spilled over and other people have been drawn in. People have taken sides and setup opposing camps.
Making accusations without giving the accused a chance to hear them in advance is wrong. You don't go into a courtroom not knowing what you have been charged with.
Not allowing the accused to have their response is also wrong.
I don't give a flying monkeys about any argument that you feel threatened. If you make or backup an accusation you should be willing to defend it. Otherwise its a baseless argument.
This has happened twice now as far as I can see.
On the subject of Akasha. Akasha can be about as subtle as a brick through a window at times. But also remember that English is not her first language and she has come under fire from more people than just Amoran lately. She seems to be a magnet for a lot of hate and anger. And yes, she is Mur's wife and I am sure that she is angry about Mur being treated badly. But she is also a person in her own right. Stop treating her like some kind of extra appendage of Mur's. If I was in her shoes I would be insulted and upset over comments like that. Making an argument that she can't speak because she is Mur's wife is insulting and unfair to anyone.
It isn't just Amoran and Akasha having some kind of bitch fight here. There is more to it than that and more people involved.
So I say to everyone involved, stop fighting, get over yourselves. Mur in particular, deserves an apology and pretty much everyone else say sorry to everyone on the basis that you may have caused offence.
I am sorry if I have offended anyone. I have ideas, I get caught up and forget to think about other people's ideas and point of view.
I am sorry.
(For anyone that I haven't insulted or offended, don't worry I am pretty sure that I will at some time, at which point I can apologise then)