What i would suggest , since you said you see your life unbalanced
... try to get it balance
to do it it mean sometime to "kick it" out of its unbalance
what i mean for exemple , if your life is to buzy, no time , thinking that you cant do all that need to be done
maybe its time to take an break ... for an weekend take time for yourself, doing nothing or someting that you really like but you dont have time to do (reading, dancing, visiting , ...)
if it mean that every thing is always like same, you have no energy and you are depress
maybe its time to try something new, or doing something wild for an weekend
(try new sport, take an course, doing in bars, ...)
after that, maybe youll be in an position to see more what you would like to do or should to to improve your situation
you say "Too much bad luck and too little good luck" "Career, relationships, or finances. My chosen career is cursed with unstability til .. "
on that, you can try to read on some positive thinking books, or get some concelling either professionnal, or from your priest
One thing is sure that if you try to think positive, even if it dont change what apened, seeing the glass 1/2 full instead of 1/2 empty , give an postive look that free one to see more possibilities in futur actions, and that way improve his chances to get better outcomes
If you read about positive thinking
most will say things like
- know your self
- know what you really want to attain for target or end goal
- plan steps you can do in the way to attain that target
- plan in detail what to do to attain each step
- try each step one at a time, and review your overall plan as necessary
- if you dont succed to attain an step at first, review your plan to reach that step , and try again
- each success in reaching an step will, reenforce your will to succed and atain your end goals
anyway best wishes
Tom