i believe the present to be the most real as it's the most actionable and holds the most potential. the past is more real the closer to the present it is, but it degrades over time as we drift further from it. memory degradation distorts events and "reality" and makes them less real, more an ideal. the future is potential, we can visualise potential in the present and use that to create causality.
future is strange, for some, near futures is more "real" , others the opposite, it depends on how easy it is for a person to visualise events, some people have it easier to imagine what they will have for breakfast tomorrow, others find it easier to imagine their lives 10 years from now. but generally the people who are good at visualising events further away from them, will have a stronger path because they have the ability to oversee their present a lot better. people who can only see strongly tomorrow, tend to live more day to day and don't have that many goals. perspective is key